3 Reasons WHY Most People Fail With Creating Success
WHY Most People Fail
Did you know what the main three reasons are why people FAIL?
1) NOT ACTING IN SPITE OF FEELINGS
2) NOT CREATING CONTINUAL MASTERY
3) NOT KNOWING THAT THEY WANT
Yep! that’s it! Not SKILLS, education or MONEY or anything else. But simply these things. But, how do I know?
Because firstly – I have been there, secondly I have studied my clients and I have helped people for over 14 years in the arena of self development and business development and not only that but – I eat, sleep and breath this subject and am always studying this area extensively.
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I know that you don’t need anything else.
There are simply just traits of people which will determine their success over others – versus those who never quite start or start and don’t carry on.
So – 1) Understand the importance of keeping on despite challenges as they will exist 2) Keep mastering yourself as you will need to consistently develop through what you do through 3) Get crystal clear clarity around what you want and why otherwise you will never have enough power to drive you forward.
3 Reasons WHY Most People Fail With Creating Success
Personal Success: So what does this mean now for you?
It means that you can stop wasting time trying to figure out ‘why’ you are ‘not successful yet’ in which ever area you dream of. You can instead simply get clarity around this stuff.
These simple principles are the master key to happiness as well as success in anything because they are the foundation to which every great occurrence and situation happens and takes place.
Many people will make success or the idea of it extremely complicated, and yet it does not need to be.
So, you can read a million books if you like, be inspired by quotes – and you can study the successful few but, the most important thing is that you can apply what I have mentioned. I do recommend studying of course as that is one of the 3 areas worth developing, but what I am suggesting is that you don’t just learn for years and be inspired when you can instead APPLY and ACT!
WHY Most People Fail
Keep It Simple
I already touched on this just now of course – and could go on about it, but the whole point in applying ‘simplicity’ for me means that I personally think that it translates much better in every area.
Hopefully it will also give you greater strength in knowing that life does not have to be so complicated.
Many see success as this huge Mountain which is almost unattainable in many respects, but it doesn’t have to b seen in that way at all.
This is also why most people tend to GET STUCK and overwhelmed in life generally as they believe that their goals are simply too hard to reach. So they feel intense about the journey and quit. They may also try a million things rather than sticking to one thing!
Plus, they may also ALLOW their feelings to DOMINATE their situation and then become overwhelmed and this MAGNIFIES WHAT THEY DON’T WANT. This intensifies their emotions and this only makes them feel more stuck.
In order to become unstuck we need to get leverage on our situation.
We need to see that we may change our perspective and our vision in order to get more focused on what we can do.
So instead of feeling FRUSTRATED, DEPRESSED or ANGRY at the current life and circumstances, we can start to simplify everything.
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How?
We need to start with getting that clarity around what we want to do, be or have. Unless we know without doubt what that is we will probably always drift and live by default rather than design a life. So we must get that clarity first of all. Now, plans often change but as long as we have one to begin with this will be the best use of our time starting out.
We then need to expect challenges, as we will be encountering unexpected and unforeseen blocks, obstacles and setbacks. This is why we must keep moving even when these occur as they will.
Especially if we have never ran a business before and this is because – we need a shift in mindset so we can go from an employee mentality to becoming an entrepreneur minded person instead.
We simply cannot expect the same rules, structure or anything else which may once have had.
3 Reasons WHY Most People Fail With Creating Success
We have to ensure that we know our role so that we can stay focused on it and hire others who are great at what they do in their roles.
So, you know what you want, you know your role, you are building that and you are moving regardless of emotion and constantly developing yourself in your craft. Great!
You are now in the top 20% of those who will create success in all that they do.
One day you will be as wise as him if you keep on!
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Personal Success Is Ongoing: START NOW!
So begin to ACT in spite of your feelings of DOUBT or FEAR and you will find that things start to seem a lot more possible and you will gain confidence in anything which – in turn will create better results and success.
This way you are going to INCREASE your ability and expectation of your own life’s results.
Secondly – you MUST continue to master your mind, But why?
Exactly the reasons I am talking about here. When you learn to master your situation and mindset you begin to control what results you really want from all areas of life.
So, its not just about business or about relationships, but about all areas. As a whole you become more successful in each area if you can apply this to each area.
Become someone who is open minded and prepared to learn and you will make it a habit.
You may need to read this several times to really get it, or you may need to look at various posts or books to really get something and I KNOW I NEEDED TO, so I would advice very strongly that you seek to understand things more as you move.
ACT regardless of your situation now and begin to become a student of RELENTLESS ACTION and FOCUS. This way you can conquer your mind so that you are more energised towards getting what you want, RATHER THAN feeling DEPRESSED by what you are getting now.
Make Sense? Hope So!
WHY Most People Fail
The truth is that it is US who hold us back the most, so we have to change our habitual ways.
So, what will you be focused on? What are your passions?
How Hard Is It To Study and Work In Your Passion Really?
Not hard at all.
What i help my clients to do is to define their area of interest and then to look at how to connect it a market need or demand. Deep research and development will create a business, product or service which is sought after.
We can also study people in the field in which we wish to master, and then craft into something unique and which stands out.
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Recognise that your thinking and actions are already creating results, so if they are not creating the results you wish for then begin to alter what you are saying to yourself into a more positive phrase or version so that you can align with the actions that are required of you.
What I would do is to WRITE DOWN ALL OF MY LIMITING BELIEFS and when done I have them I burn it and LET IT GO. There are many ways to change our beliefs and if you need any help with this then simply holla @ www.GregDeTisi.com
I will be more than happy to share some stuff with you that I know can help you change your perspective.
3 Reasons WHY Most People Fail With Creating Success
So, now you can BREATH DEEPLY and say ‘I NO LONGER NEED THIS IN MY LIFE’. Say to yourself, ‘I AM A PERSON OF ACTION AND OF SUCCESS and FROM NOW ON I CHOOSE TO BE THE MASTER OF MY LIFE’!
Got it!
There is no need for us to SUFFER in life when we can change our outcomes and get more Personal Success EVERY DAY. We just have to STOP going over old ground and past failures as though they make us WEAK.
They don’t! They were experiences and failures were stepping stones.
These can actually make us stronger and more resilient. Moreover they are experience and education so use it all. The trouble so many have though is that they let failures hurt them and harm them, thus they walk away wounded like a wild animal going back to it’s cave to lick it’s wounds. Yes, failure can hurt, but so what, get back out of the cave and try again. But this time with more experience.
Failures are the key to better results in the future just remember that.
So:
1) NOT ACTING IN SPITE OF FEELINGS – INSTEAD ACT ANYWAY AND BE CONSISTENT. Get help and use whatever tools you need. I use meditation, exercise, good nutrients, empowering books and audios. And we must keep on and finish what we start or we will end up trying over and over halfheartedly.
2) NOT CREATING CONTINUAL MASTERY – WORK ON YOURSELF AS THE BRAIN IS A MUSCLE. Expand the mind and focus on the craft you have decided to master. Become obsessed with it.
3) NOT KNOWING THAT THEY WANT – GET ABSOLUTELY CLEAR ON WHAT YOU WANT AND WHY. Explore, research, dig deep, write down ideas and start to form your thing. Again get the help if needed.
Finally, if you need help with any of this or any other area then get it! Find someone or something that works for you and learn from your areas of weakness by overcoming them with a guide, mentor or consultant.
STRUGGLING IN LIFE DOES NOT HAVE TO HAPPEN EVERY DAY AS WE CAN ALWAYS IMPROVE ON OUR LIVES.
3 Reasons WHY Most People Fail With Creating Success
In my experience, there Is more FEAR and PAIN connected to NOT ACTING on dreams and Personal Success.
The idea of living a mediocre life to me with struggle and stress does not fill me with joy and never has so, it was easy for me to ACT INSPITE OF FEELINGS, and to CONTINUALLY IMPROVE my KNOWLEDGE. This is what I suggest to you. Don’t be another one of the 90% who QUIT on what they really want. YOU WERE BORN UNIQUE and therefore you have to live your life YOUR WAY.
So, do it your way and you will be happy that you connected to personal success.
Personal Success Conclusion: I have always had a coach of some kind to help me to get laser focused and take the right action and I totally recommend the same for you. Don’t put your success to one side as one day you will regret not having taken the action, get the right help from an experienced person or persons and it will make all the difference.
Finally – I just want to reiterate that we do not need special skills, education, luck or anything else, we just need to keep moving and growing and this will change everything – and as long as we can do so success is possible in anything.
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We are always in motion — and the good news is that you get to decide the direction. So, which will it be? Will you let yourself fall slowly into the hell of uncertainty and of doubt and fear, only to guarantee the self-fulfilling prophecy of your own failure? Or – do you make the leap out of the fire and onto your upward path, keen to embrace the journey and to learn that at every step, your heart and head are there to point you in the direction of your dreams?
I think that it’s time you chose courage, and it’s time you begin your journey.
Here is one of my favourite success teachers sharing his view on this:
“The best way to succeed is to have a specific Intent, a clear Vision, a plan of Action, and the ability to maintain Clarity. Those are the Four Pillars of Success. It never fails!”
― Life, the Truth, and Being Free
As always I wish you the very best
Greg
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